And here's the day when I met her, a young Malay mommy, married at the age of 20, mother of four children now. She's a working women currently, who once owns her husband. Yet, she was abandoned along with her child three years ago. With great disappointment and painstaking decision, she bought her case to the court.
Yes, she won the lawsuit and get her divorce with court order alimony as the judgement. However, it is only a fortune irreclaimable. While she was raising her little children in this three years, she did not gain even single penny from her irresponsible ex-husband. Though life ain't easy with a aging old mother to took care of, some medical health problems and all these disheartening scars, it never fails her to strive for her living, also for her beloved child. It is all shown through her facial expression when she speaks. Non-verbal language don't lies. She's strong!
Rather than complaining everyday on those difficulties that we faced, why don't we learn from this young mother the meaning of PERSEVERANCE ! There's far more people who are in the state no better than us. So why complain? Live your life to the fullest :-) You worth something better!
每个人的身上都有个故事。
这天，我遇见了她。
一个当初20岁就嫁人了的年轻友族妈咪，转眼间也成了四个孩子的妈。曾今亲密的那个他，把孩子妻子都给抛下，快活去了。尽管悲痛难过,但她亦接受了这残酷的现实。将这件事带上法院也不是当初她所期许美梦的一部分。是的！官司打赢了，婚也离了，监护权亦归她了，男方也被判决需付一定的赡养费于她。
而在离开后的三年里，母亲独自抚养四个孩子。前夫嘛，就从未给过她一分一毫。赡养费这回事往往就是份甜蜜的空口言，难以被履行。纵然家有年迈的母亲加上自身的一些身体疾病，然而种种生命里的疮疤并没打倒她，反而提醒了她让她更晓得自食其力的根本。坚强，是为了自己，更是为了孩子！
在谈话的言语的之间，非言语表情也告诉了我她的决心和毅力！
与其天天在抱怨说没有人关心，这个不好，那个很糟，生活很苦；倒不如学习这位年轻妈咪的坚毅！在世界的各个角落比我们不幸的人多得是。何苦还在不停抱怨呢？人比人气死人！把自个儿的生活过得精彩。大大小小的幸福就藏在你的周围，不知你发现到它了吗？:-)
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